Today I pulled for the collective Aries sign to ask about their past and current person’s feelings toward them and the secrets they hold. 

The question asked of the Universe and Guides was: “How does the past person on the mind of Aries in a romantic connection feel about them emotionally? How does the current person feel about them? Please provide the secrets each hides from Aries.”

Cards pulled:

Past Person
Tarot: The Empress (reversed), Six of Wands (reversed), Six of Swords
Secrets: Bad Reputation clarified by The Clover

Current Person
Tarot: The High Priestess (reversed), Eight of Pentacles, Justice
Secrets: Obsessive Lover clarified by The Cloud

My interpretation:

Past Person

The past person weighing heavily on your mind, dear Aries, is experiencing deep feelings of abandonment and neglect. It’s as if they believe they no longer exist in your world, unseen and unheard. This emotional disconnection is vividly depicted by The Empress reversed, the Six of Wands reversed, and the Six of Swords. When The Empress appears in reverse, it speaks to a sense of neglect, a void of nurturing, and emotional withdrawal. Your past person feels that you have turned away from them on an emotional level, leaving them in a space that is both cold and isolating. This neglect cuts deep, causing a lingering pain in their heart.

The Six of Wands in reverse suggests that they feel completely overlooked, unrecognized, as though their efforts or presence went unnoticed when they longed for acknowledgment. To them, it’s not just about feeling ignored, but about being denied validation at a moment when they craved it the most. It’s as if they have faded from your view, and that has left them in a state of emotional invisibility.

The Six of Swords further emphasizes this dynamic of departure. They sense that you are moving away from them, physically or emotionally, leaving them behind. Yet, this card also hints that they might be attempting to move on themselves, sailing into calmer waters. However, this movement carries a tinge of regret—there’s a sorrow in leaving behind what once was, and that regret is intertwined with a sense of finality, knowing they are moving forward without you.

The secret they are holding onto is a darker one, represented by the card “Bad Reputation.” Clarified by “The Clover” from the Lenormand Deck, which symbolizes luck, joy, and prosperity, it seems that there is something from their past that they are relieved never surfaced during your time together. This could relate to past relationships, rumors, or even legal issues, hidden away like skeletons in a closet. Whatever the case may be, this person feels fortunate, almost blessed, that this reputation remained unknown to you. In a sense, they believe they’ve dodged a bullet, and they carry a quiet relief that this secret hasn’t marred your perception of them.

Current Person

The person currently in your life is grappling with their own internal battles, dear Aries, but the good news is that they are aware of their flaws and are making a concerted effort to address them. When asking about their feelings for you, the cards revealed The High Priestess reversed, the Eight of Pentacles, and Justice. The High Priestess in reverse speaks of inner confusion, self-doubt, and emotional suppression. Your current partner is struggling to keep something hidden, perhaps an aspect of themselves that they feel ashamed of, and this struggle is breeding uncertainty within them. This inner turmoil is likely causing a ripple effect in their emotional world, creating a cloud of doubt.

Yet, the Eight of Pentacles shines a more hopeful light on the situation. This card signifies effort, dedication, and self-improvement. Your person is not content to sit idly in their confusion or self-doubt. They are actively working on themselves, likely recognizing the issues they need to address in order to be the partner they feel you deserve. This card indicates that you are a source of inspiration for them to strive for betterment, and this process of growth is ongoing.

Justice follows, symbolizing the desire for balance and fairness. Your partner is seeking equilibrium within themselves and in the relationship. This tells me that they want to approach things in a more balanced and healthy way—they are striving to right any wrongs and to bring fairness to the relationship dynamic. This card suggests they are aware of their shortcomings and are trying to address them with sincerity and purpose.

However, there’s a secret they are keeping from you, indicated by the card “Obsessive Love,” which reads, “Dangerous, toxic, unhealthy, possessiveness, karmic.” This is further clarified by “The Clouds” card, which represents doubt, confusion, and hidden matters. Your partner fears that they might bring unhealthy patterns into the relationship, and they are struggling with this realization. The Clouds reflect their internal state, filled with uncertainty and fear that their possessiveness or other toxic traits might harm the relationship.

While this might seem alarming, it’s important to remember that the very fact they are worried about these traits shows a strong level of self-awareness. They are not in denial; instead, they recognize these potential issues and are concerned enough to work on them. This is where your relationship holds great promise, Aries. You have the opportunity to address these concerns openly, helping them work through their doubts and fears, and ultimately forging a stronger, more balanced partnership together.

Decks Used:

Broken Mirror Tarot, What’s the Tea Oracle by Sishui, Slavic Folklore Lenormand Deck by Faina Lorah