Today I pulled for the collective Cancer sign who are in romantic conflict. I asked Spirit how Cancer viewed the conflict and how their partner sees it.
The question asked of the Universe and Guides was: For the collective sign of Cancer and those Cancer who are in romantic conflict, how do they view the conflict and how does the person on their mind see the conflict?
Cards pulled:
How you view the conflict (Tarot): Six of Wands, Ten of Cups, Seven of Cups.
How do they view the conflict (Tarot): Four of Cups, Five of Swords, Ten of Swords.
Conflict Oracle Card: “If…..in the midst of difficulties we are always ready to seize an advantage, we may extricate ourselves from misfortune.”
My interpretation:
How you view the conflict: You seem to be viewing this conflict with the person on your mind as a competition. Your primary goal is to be right and to emerge victorious. You believe that only by winning this fight will you achieve a sense of wholeness and completion. However, in focusing solely on being the winner, you are ignoring the actual issues and the necessary steps to heal and repair the relationship. Your attention is consumed by the desire to win the argument rather than resolving the underlying conflict.
How they view the conflict: Your partner feels deeply betrayed by your actions and words. They are in a great deal of emotional pain and are struggling with the current state of your connection. They are unhappy with the conflict and arguments that have occurred and no longer wish to engage in fighting or arguing with you. Their primary desire is to heal. Your partner is hurting tremendously and feels that you are not providing the support they need to recover and heal from this turmoil.
Conflict Oracle Card:
Front: “If…..in the midst of difficulties we are always ready to seize an advantage, we may extricate ourselves from misfortune.”
Back: Embracing Change – Change is inevitable but many are scared of it. Major life events, leaving home, quitting a job, splitting up with a partner, marriage or divorce, are stressful. Prepare for the worst, but taking the right risks at the right time will ensure you get through it. The best way to prepare for change is to be the one driving it.
I believe your guides are asking you to change your mindset regarding this connection. If you continue to ignore the core issues of this conflict and focus solely on “winning,” it will drive your significant other away. Instead, change the way you approach conflict resolution and work together to address any issues. There should be an equal give and take, and it’s essential for you to recognize and understand your partner’s perspective.
Decks Used:
Gold Foil Tarot by Kiino, The Art of War Oracle Cards by Sun Tzu.
