Today I pulled for the collective Cancer sign to ask about the shadow work they are meant to help with and learn from regarding the person on their mind in a romantic connection.
The question asked of the Universe and Guides was: With respect to the person on the mind of the Cancer in a romantic connection, together or separate, what shadow work was the Cancer there to help this person with – and what shadow work was this person there to help the Cancer with? Clarify with tarot and also provide a general message with the Shadows & Light Oracle.
Cards pulled:
The Person on Your Mind
Shadow Work Oracle Card: Betrayal
Tarot: Three of Wands, Six of Cups, Queen of Wands.
You
Shadow Work Oracle Card: Guilt
Tarot: Four of Swords, Eight of Swords (reversed), Ten of Swords (reversed).
General Message
Shadows & Light Oracle Card: Pink Lotus Fairy: A time for spirit.
My interpretation:
Your Person
The Shadow Work Oracle card drawn for this person is “Betrayal,” with the message, “Healing begins with acceptance and forgiveness.” It seems that when you first encountered this person, they were trapped in a cycle of pain and stagnation, unable to move forward due to the lingering wounds of a deep betrayal by someone else. Betrayal can be an incredibly paralyzing experience, leaving one stuck in a mire of misery, unable to escape the shadows of the past. Such feelings often lead to a continuous replay of the betrayal in one’s mind, preventing any progress or healing.
How you’ve played a role in their healing is clarified by the Three of Wands, the Six of Cups, and the Queen of Wands. The Three of Wands suggests that you have been a beacon of hope for this person, helping them to look beyond their pain and see a brighter future on the horizon. You’ve encouraged them to take that difficult first step toward moving past the betrayal, offering them a vision of what lies ahead—a future unburdened by the weight of their past.
The Six of Cups reflects the healing power of emotional connection that you’ve brought into their life. This card speaks of innocent, sweet love, and sentimental memories. Your nurturing and affectionate nature have provided this person with a sense of comfort and nostalgia, helping them reconnect with the simple, pure emotions that they may have lost touch with due to their previous pain. Your kindness and care have served as a balm for their wounded heart, offering them the warmth and support they needed to begin the healing process.
Finally, the Queen of Wands symbolizes the energy of enthusiasm, confidence, and empowerment that you have restored in this person. Through your influence, they have regained a sense of positivity and self-assurance that was once overshadowed by the betrayal. You have reignited their inner fire, helping them to stand tall once again and embrace life with renewed vigor. Your presence has been instrumental in their journey of moving on, allowing them to reclaim their strength and confidence.
You
The Shadow Work Oracle card drawn for you is “Guilt,” with the message, “Release the chains of past mistakes and embrace the growth they bring.” This person entered your life to help you confront and overcome the debilitating effects of guilt. Guilt is a powerful emotion that can hold us back, trapping us in a cycle of self-doubt, negative thoughts, and an inability to move forward. It can create a mental prison that seems impossible to escape, causing you to constantly second-guess yourself and replay past mistakes in your mind.
The tarot cards—Four of Swords, Eight of Swords in reverse, and Ten of Swords in reverse—clarify how this person has aided you in your own healing process. The Four of Swords speaks to the internal healing and peace that this person has helped you to find. They have provided you with the space and support needed to heal your inner wounds, allowing you to rest and recover from the emotional turmoil you’ve experienced.
The Eight of Swords in reverse signifies the liberation from the mental constraints that once held you back. This person has been a key figure in helping you break free from the guilt that kept you trapped, offering you the clarity and strength to escape the self-imposed prison of your thoughts. They have shown you that it is possible to move beyond the guilt, to release the chains of your past, and to embrace the freedom that comes with self-forgiveness.
The Ten of Swords in reverse represents recovery, forgiveness, and moving on. Through their influence, you have learned to forgive yourself for past mistakes, to let go of the guilt that once weighed so heavily on your soul. This person has guided you toward a place of acceptance and healing, helping you to see that the past no longer has to define you. They have played a crucial role in your journey of letting go, enabling you to leave the past where it belongs and move forward with a renewed sense of peace and purpose.
Additional Message
The Shadows and Light Oracle card “Pink Lotus Fairy: A Time for Spirit” brings a message of reflection and spiritual growth. Spirit is encouraging both of you to take a moment to reflect on the blessings you have brought into each other’s lives. Consider how much you have helped one another heal, grow, and move forward. This card also suggests that it may be time to infuse a sense of spirituality into your relationship, elevating your bond to new heights. Whether through meditation, shared spiritual practices, or simply taking time to connect on a deeper level, Spirit is guiding you to nurture the spiritual aspect of your connection, allowing it to flourish and bring even more profound healing and understanding to both of you.
Decks Used:
Nicoletta Ceccoli Tarot, Shadow Work Oracle, Oracle of Shadows & Light by Lucy Cavendish and Jasmine Becket-Griffith.
