Today I pulled for the collective Gemini sign who have an ex on their mind.
The question asked of the Universe and Guides was: What is the connecting energy between the Collective Gemini and the ex on their mind – for those who need to hear this message? I used two more decks to clarify this connecting energy.
Cards pulled:
Love Messages Deck (Connecting Energy): Reflection. Being away from you has allowed me to gain clarity.
Tarot: Judgement. Two of Cups. Queen of Wands. Seven of Cups is at the bottom of the deck.
Love Oracle Cards:
Palm Tree: Stability, security, permanence, growth, endurance, flexibility.
Not Today: Not dealing, hurt, avoiding a conversation/call/person, boundaries, still angry.
My interpretation:
My dear Gemini, sometimes relationships experience significant upheavals, and the best way to gain perspective is to spend some time apart. Although this separation can be extremely difficult and painful, it provides an opportunity for healing and allows you to view the problems from a distance, gaining better clarity on what truly went wrong. This distance makes it easier to understand both sides, rather than being blinded by your own pain or hurt. It appears that both you and your ex have used this time apart to gain a better perspective on your relationship. The separation has brought about greater clarity, as indicated by the connecting energy of the “Reflection” card.
To further explain the Reflection card, we have the Judgment card, which itself is a symbol of reflection. This card speaks to understanding your past decisions and recognizing how they have impacted those around you and your own life. It also signifies moving past these issues with forgiveness and mercy. The Two of Cups emerges as a card of perfect union and love between two people, suggesting that during this period of separation and reflection, both of you have come to appreciate the strong and pure love you share. Additionally, the energy of the Queen of Wands has been present during this time of reflection, representing passion and devotion felt by both of you.
At the bottom of the deck, we find the Seven of Cups, indicating that the way forward is still unclear for both of you. This suggests that the period of reflection is not yet over.
The Love Oracle cards drawn for further clarification are the “Palm Tree” and “Not Today.” The Palm Tree card represents issues of security, stability, and flexibility, which are still being considered and reflected upon by both of you. You are both weighing the pros and cons of the relationship and contemplating whether it is worth re-engaging. The “Not Today” card reinforces this message, emphasizing that more time is needed for reflection.
This is the connecting energy between the two of you. Both you and the ex on your mind, for those who need to hear it, are experiencing these same emotions.
Decks Used:
Classic Tarot by Fofeadm, Messages of Love Oracle Deck by Sishui, Lov Oracle Cards by Island Time Wellness