Today I pulled for the collective Libra sign who are in romantic conflict. I asked Spirit how Libra viewed the conflict and how their partner sees it.
The question asked of the Universe and Guides was: For the collective sign of Libra and those Libras who are in romantic conflict, how do they view the conflict and how does the person on their mind see the conflict?
Cards pulled:
How you view the conflict (Tarot): The Magician (reversed), Three of Pentacles, Two of Pentacles (reversed).
How do they view the conflict (Tarot): The Chariot, Six of Wands, Two of Cups.
Conflict Oracle Card: “We cannot enter into alliances until we are acquainted with the designs of our neighbors.”
My interpretation:
How you view the conflict: You’re experiencing a whirlwind of conflicting thoughts and emotions. The situation feels chaotic and disordered, making it difficult to discern what is real and what is not when it comes to this person. Mixed signals from the past have left you questioning their authenticity and intentions. You find yourself unsure whether you’ve been manipulated or if your perceptions of this person were genuine. Amidst this turmoil, it appears that you’re seeking support from others, possibly a counselor, to help you navigate this emotional labyrinth. This person has impacted you deeply, affecting you emotionally, physically, and mentally. The confusion and pain you’re feeling are substantial, and it’s clear you’re working hard to find clarity and healing.
How they view the conflict:
If your current state is one of confusion, brace yourself—this person’s perspective might add another layer of complexity. They believe you are their soulmate, even though their ways of expressing love might be unconventional or seemingly absent. Despite their feelings for you, their need to maintain a positive public image takes precedence. The conflict between you may have played out publicly, and their priority is to emerge looking victorious. For them, apologizing seems unlikely, as they prioritize being perceived as the winner. Their love for you is overshadowed by their love for their ego, pride, and the image they project to others. While they do care for you, their actions are driven by a desire to maintain control and appear triumphant in the eyes of others. This duality in their nature—genuine feelings for you contrasted with an overwhelming concern for public perception—complicates the situation further.
Conflict Oracle Card:
Front: “We cannot enter into alliances until we are acquainted with the designs of our neighbors.”
Back: Choose Your Friends Carefully – The chances are that you surround yourself with like-minded people and everything works out. But sometimes friends become distanced from us, as do about workmates and other acquaintances. Without knowing their “designs”, how can you decide whether they are friend or foe? Remember, friends are not always allies and allies are not always friends.
Your guides seem to be conveying an important message: sometimes, even romantic partners may not truly be your “friends.” If this person is more focused on winning rather than being a loving and loyal partner, then they are not genuinely a friend either. They view you as an opponent, someone to be conquered, despite considering you a lover. This might seem paradoxical, but it reflects a complex and, unfortunately, twisted reality for some people.
Decks Used:
Gold Foil Tarot by Kiino, The Art of War Oracle Cards by Sun Tzu.
