Today I pulled for the collective Virgo sign to ask about their past and current person’s feelings toward them and the secrets they hold.
The question asked of the Universe and Guides was: “How does the past person on the mind of Virgo in a romantic connection feel about them emotionally? How does the current person feel about them? Please provide the secrets each hides from Virgo.”
Cards pulled:
Past Person
Tarot: Seven of Pentacles, Five of Cups, The Magician
Secrets: No Facts clarified by The Clouds
Current Person
Tarot: Six of Pentacles (reversed), Ace of Cups, King of Cups (reversed)
Secrets: Moves in Silence clarified by The Snake
My interpretation:
Past Person
The person from your past is thinking about you constantly, filled with both regret and longing. The tarot cards drawn—the Seven of Pentacles, the Five of Cups, and The Magician—paint a vivid picture of their internal struggle. The Seven of Pentacles reveals that this person is stuck in a state of contemplation and resistance. They are replaying every moment, every conversation, and every conflict from your relationship, obsessing over what went right and what went wrong. This reflection has left them in a state of “analysis paralysis,” unable to move forward or fully let go. They are mentally reliving the relationship over and over, trying to make sense of its end.
The Five of Cups shows me that this person is deeply grieving the loss of your connection. They are filled with regret, mourning what could have been. They miss you terribly and wish that things had unfolded differently. The sorrow they feel is overwhelming, and it’s as though they cannot escape their feelings of loss. No matter how hard they try, their thoughts keep circling back to you, and the pain of your absence is constant.
The Magician card suggests that this person isn’t content to just sit with their feelings of regret; they want to change things. Whether they are actively trying to reach out or are simply attempting to manifest a new reality in their mind, they desire a shift in the current situation. This person may be working on plans to reconcile or imagining ways they can repair the damage done. The energy of The Magician shows that they believe they have the power to turn things around, and they are not ready to give up on the possibility of rekindling what you had.
However, the secret they’re hiding from you is revealed by the “No Facts” card, which is clarified by “The Clouds” from the Lenormand deck. This tells me that this person is living in a state of confusion and self-deception. They may be spreading false stories about why the relationship ended, or they may have convinced themselves of things that aren’t entirely true. It’s possible they are telling others—or even themselves—that you were to blame for the breakup, making up stories that paint them as the victim. However, deep down, they know that their feelings of regret contradict these lies. They are refusing to fully take responsibility, clouding their own judgment and the truth of what really happened between you.
Current Person
Your current person, dear one, is feeling unfulfilled in this relationship. The tarot cards drawn—the Six of Pentacles reversed, the Ace of Cups, and the King of Cups reversed—reveal the emotional imbalance they are experiencing. The Six of Pentacles in reverse suggests that your person feels the relationship is lacking in reciprocity. They feel as though they are giving more than they are receiving, whether it be in terms of emotional support, time, or energy. This unequal give-and-take is leaving them feeling drained and unappreciated. Your person may be craving more attention, love, and care from you but feels that their needs are not being met.
Despite this, the Ace of Cups shows that their love for you is still strong. This card represents deep emotional connection and overflowing affection. Even though they feel neglected, they have a reservoir of love for you that is not easily shaken. Their heart is still very much tied to you, and walking away from this relationship would be incredibly difficult for them. This person holds onto the hope that things can improve because their feelings for you run deep.
However, the reversed King of Cups reveals that this emotional imbalance is causing turmoil within them. They may feel as though they are being emotionally manipulated or neglected, and the lack of emotional support is creating wounds that run deep. This card speaks to emotional instability and distress. Your person is likely feeling hurt, confused, and overwhelmed by the perceived neglect they are experiencing. They are struggling to manage their emotions, and the love they have for you is clashing with their feelings of emotional abandonment. It’s as though they are trapped in a whirlwind of love and pain, unsure of how to navigate these conflicting feelings.
The secret they are hiding from you is shown by the “Moves in Silence” card, clarified by “The Snake” from the Lenormand deck. This suggests that your person is keeping something from you, something they believe you would not approve of. The Snake represents deception, desire, and ambition, indicating that they may be quietly seeking emotional fulfillment elsewhere. While this doesn’t necessarily mean they are engaging in a full-blown affair, it does suggest they could be looking for the emotional connection they feel is lacking in your relationship. For some, this could be something more benign, such as confiding in someone else or focusing on their personal ambitions in secret.
Your partner is craving more attention and emotional intimacy from you. Becoming more attentive to their needs and opening up lines of communication could help restore balance in your relationship. The cards suggest that there is still love here, but healing will require a concerted effort from both sides.
Decks Used:
Broken Mirror Tarot, What’s the Tea Oracle by Sishui, Slavic Folklore Lenormand Deck by Faina Lorah