Today I pulled for the collective Cancer sign who have an ex on their mind.
The question asked of the Universe and Guides was: What is the connecting energy between the Collective Cancer and the ex on their mind – for those who need to hear this message? I used two more decks to clarify this connecting energy.
Cards pulled:
Love Messages Deck (Connecting Energy): Sabotage. I mess up the good things in my life sometimes.
Tarot: Two of Cups, Two of Pentacles, Nine of Cups. The Hierophant is at the bottom of the deck.
Love Oracle Cards:
The Grim Reaper: The relationship is over, no second chances, grow and transform your life.
Ascending: Transcending obstacles, learning, expansion, new phase, preparing for union.
My interpretation:
My dear Cancer, it seems that you and your ex once shared a relationship that appeared perfect in every way. Your love for each other was strong and passionate, and it remains evident. However, something happened to disrupt this harmony. The connecting energy between you both is the oracle card of “Sabotage,” indicating that the breakup was not solely the fault of one person. Both of you exhibited traits of self-sabotage. The oracle card states, “I mess up the good things in my life,” and this relationship was certainly a good thing, as described by the clarifying tarot cards.
To elucidate the Sabotage card, we have the Two of Cups, which symbolizes a perfect union between two people. This represents the “good thing” that both of you sabotaged. The Sabotage may be further represented by the Two of Pentacles, a card of juggling too many priorities and responsibilities. It’s possible that both of you were too preoccupied with other commitments, such as work, or even a third party. The Nine of Cups highlights the “good thing” between you both, indicating that you see each other as your ultimate wish fulfillment. You both had everything you ever wanted in each other.
At the bottom of the deck, the Hierophant suggests that your relationship was once very committed, possibly even a marriage. Alternatively, it could also signify the nature of the Sabotage—perhaps one of you strayed from the marriage into the arms of another.
The love oracle cards “The Grim Reaper” and “Ascending” present a bit of a paradox, similar to a message received in an earlier reading. The Grim Reaper suggests that the sabotage has led to a permanent ending. On the other hand, the Ascending card speaks of healing, learning, growing, and possibly finding a way back to each other. With both cards on the table, this could imply that reconciliation would require both of you to reach the same conclusion and be willing to work through the issues together.
This is the connecting energy between the two of you. Both you and the ex on your mind, for those who need to hear it, are experiencing these same emotions.
Decks Used:
Classic Tarot by Fofeadm, Messages of Love Oracle Deck by Sishui, Lov Oracle Cards by Island Time Wellness
