Today I pulled for the collective Virgo sign to ask about the person Virgo is missing in a romantic connection to ask if this person is likely to reach out.
The question asked of the Universe and Guides was: For the collective sign of Virgo (Sun, Moon, and Rising) who are missing someone they had been romantically involved with. Will this person reach out to the Virgos?
Cards pulled:
Tarot: Death clarified by the Six of Wands, Queen of Wands clarified by The Tower, The Hierophant clarified by the Three of Swords.
True Intentions Card: ReConnection – I know it’s been a while but I miss you being in my life.
Spirit Messages: Someone Else – Someone is in the middle…someone is trying to sabotage this connection.
My interpretation:
All of the readings with this question for the week will begin with the same important note: This question is fundamentally a YES or NO question, and there are no predetermined actions from individuals. I can share insights about desire and the likely response, but these are not definitive outcomes. People possess free will, which can change unexpectedly. While your person may currently want or not want to contact you, this can change at any time. I can tell you if the desire exists, but acting on this desire is another matter.
With the Death card clarified by the Six of Wands, it is evident that this person is intensely focused on maintaining a positive facade following the end of your relationship. They are putting significant effort into appearing calm, cool, and collected in public. This might be especially true if your falling out was a public event, making it crucial for them to show everyone around them that they are coping well. Their public image and how they are perceived by others seem to hold great importance for them.
The Queen of Wands clarified by The Tower suggests that the breakup was an extremely emotionally charged event for them. Currently, they are channeling their energy into self-focus and self-care. This person is attempting to be self-absorbed in a positive way, working on themselves and trying to build a new foundation. This period of self-focus indicates a profound inner transformation, as they strive to recover and rebuild their life.
The Hierophant clarified by the Three of Swords indicates that your person has been seeking a lot of help to deal with the emotional devastation caused by the breakup. This could mean they have sought professional help, such as therapy, to heal their broken heart. It could also indicate that they have turned to self-help books, engaged in deep study, or sought solace and advice from close confidants. These cards together suggest that they are making significant efforts toward healing and maintaining a positive self-image.
The True Intentions card of “Re-Connection” clearly shows that your person deeply desires to reconnect with you. Despite the pain and the extensive work they have done on themselves, they miss you and would love to talk to you again. However, the Spirit card of “Someone Else” indicates that there may be an external influence actively trying to prevent this person from reaching out. This could be anyone—a parent, sibling, friend, or someone who is interested in them romantically and is trying to keep them from reestablishing contact with you.
This person certainly has a strong desire to reconnect with you. They have been working hard on healing and maintaining their self-image after a highly emotional breakup. While their intentions are clear, the presence of external influences makes it uncertain whether they will act on this desire. The decision to reach out remains in the balance, influenced by their own journey of healing and the external pressures they are facing.
Decks Used:
Everyday Tarot by Brigit Esselmont, True Intentions by Pausology, Cosmic Oracle Tarot by Han Yu Bowen
